Everything starts with your request – please make sure that it is not an impersonal copy & paste message, in which the name of another lady is still written, but go at least partially to the homepage or texts of your lady of hearts.

As far as possible, summarize all important data already at the beginning, like this:

• The desired duration of the date
• The meeting place
• The time
• Maybe you already know which hotel you are in.
• A short description of yourself is always good, too.

Many ladies – like everyone – have preferences regarding their sexual partners and you certainly don’t want an awkward silence as soon as the lady enters the room. For example, a common preference is not to meet with customers under 30; still others are uncomfortable with customers who “could be their father.”

Many ladies enjoy tenderness with a cozy “bear type”, others prefer it very slim. Can you tell by the tip of my nose which of the two types I belong to? Of course not. So give the independent escort lady or agency management the opportunity to find out whether you fall into the prey scheme.

HOW DO I MAKE SURE THE LADY FEELS AS COMFORTABLE AS I DO?

Everything starts with your request – please make sure that it is not an impersonal copy & paste message, in which the name of another lady is still written, but go at least partially to the homepage or texts of your lady of hearts.

As far as possible, summarize all important data already at the beginning, like this:

• The desired duration of the date
• The meeting place
• The time
• Maybe you already know which hotel you are in.
• A short description of yourself is always good, too.

Many ladies – like everyone – have preferences regarding their sexual partners and you certainly don’t want an awkward silence as soon as the lady enters the room. For example, a common preference is not to meet with customers under 30; still others are uncomfortable with customers who “could be their father.”

Many ladies enjoy tenderness with a cozy “bear type”, others prefer it very slim. Can you tell by the tip of my nose which of the two types I belong to? Of course not. So give the independent escort lady or agency management the opportunity to find out whether you fall into the prey scheme.

THE TIME HAS COME: YOU MEET!

It is best to receive the lady (if possible) in the lobby instead of in the room, as many hotels work with key cards or intercept the lady at the reception and question her.

Please don’t just wait for the lady to approach you, she may not be sure if you are the right gentleman. In most cases, she does not have a photo of you, so she runs the risk of approaching the wrong gentleman. So feel free to approach her with a smile, address her by name for good measure, and offer to carry her luggage.

Every lady is happy about a small compliment right at the beginning. That breaks the ice!

So far, so good.

• In the room you are welcome to provide drinks, it is best to ask beforehand what the lady would like to drink.
• Give the lady a few minutes to arrive and adjust to you.
• If you like, you can bring music and preferably a jukebox.
• I love learning about the Lord’s taste in music!
• But I always have music for every taste, just in case.

If no meal is planned for the date, offer from 4 hours booking time quite gentlemenlike a few snacks or room service. This makes it even more fun to get physical.

Ideally, there will already be an envelope (even with their name on it if you want to be sure) on the table for you to put their fee in.

If you find time beforehand, many ladies will be happy to receive a small gift such as a box of chocolates or a book in which you can place the envelope. Of course, a bouquet of flowers is also a great gift, but it requires some planning.

If you still don’t want to miss her radiant face- many ladies note their favorite flowers in their sedcard.

Usually the lady wants to freshen up briefly in the bathroom, change for you and discreetly count the fee (some prefer to do this in front of the client so it can be clarified directly if money is missing). So don’t be surprised if she disappears for a moment. If you want, do it to her afterwards like, you should not have showered anyway shortly before the date. Washing hands and genitals is especially important for this evening. Feel free to check out my blog on
Fellatio
how to best clean your penis. Freshly brushed teeth are also evidence of an attentive and well-groomed gentleman.

SO, TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND EXHALE.

So far, everything has been going quite well, right?

I know that you want everything and you want it now. This is understandable, but please also try to respond to the lady’s preferences and ideally not insist on every service offered. Anal sex can be enjoyable some days and not others. Serious ladies therefore often do not firmly agree to some practices, but point out to you that it depends on the form of the day. Or maybe you’re surprisingly just too well built?

Also, delaying your orgasm for hours can be delightful for you, but at some point it can become unpleasant for the lady during sexual intercourse. Give her a break in between. Massages, a drink at the bar or a shared bath are a great idea to bridge the time “in between”.

You had a nice evening and want to tell about it? Forums like
Mc-escort.com
and
Escort-dates.com
offer the possibility to write reports about ladies. Please be sure to remain respectful in the process. The exact details of the date belong only to the two of you and that’s fine. The evening did not go as planned? First of all, please try to talk to the lady or the agency before writing a negative report. Maybe there was a misunderstanding or the chemistry just wasn’t right. Something like this can happen even to the “professionals”. If, contrary to expectations, it didn’t work out at all, an aborted date is often better than a frantically followed-through one.

Please note that some of these wishes and ideas correspond to my personal preferences – possibly the lady of your choice has other ideal ideas. So take my ideas with you, but still feel free to ask the lady again. (Unless you want to meet me – then my preferences are now like an open book in front of you).

Now finally the not so nice sides of the escort.

THE FIVE NO-GOS ON DATES

1.) Do not prepare the fee
Please place the fee in an unsealed envelope at the beginning of the date. I hope you understand that we, too, want to feel like we’re on a distinctly nice, private date- only then can we convey that feeling in a believable way. Taking the money out of your wallet at the end of the date, counting it out and asking “how much do you get now” will probably make you stay in the lady’s mind. Negative.

2.) Do not respect the privacy of the lady
If the lady comes by car, give her another 2-3 minutes to possibly check her makeup and change into her pumps. The close study of the license plate as well as the interior of the car I have already experienced and found very encroaching. Since then, I often ask gentlemen to just wait at the hotel entrance.
(Please refrain from any behavior that has to do with revealing the lady’s identity. Also, secret video or photo shoots are an absolute violation of her privacy rights and should be in your imagination rather than in reality).

3.) Hygiene!
Unfortunately, uncut fingernails and toenails not only tear expensive stockings, but can also injure the delicate skin on the genitals. Please think about buying a nail file, as it does not leave sharp edges. If you notice nail fungus on you, you should get it treated urgently. It is highly contagious. It’s best to briefly inform the lady that you are being treated for this and – very sexy – leave your socks on.

Unfortunately, genital hygiene is still a big issue, as it is usually not enough to stand under warm water. So please also wash under your foreskin, because it automatically pushes back a bit when you have an erection or a handjob, and at the latest then it will show how careful you were. Feel free to check out my blog Fellatio for more tips on pubic hygiene.

Irregularities in skin coloration or the surface of the penis should definitely be examined by a doctor before dating. Many ladies refuse contact with genitals, if they can not clearly assess where such places come from. So don’t be afraid to ask your doctor, he will surely give the all-clear and you and the lady can enjoy the date carefree.

Here still at the edge:
The rear view also needs care, especially if you want the lady to lie down during mutual oral sex or if you plan anal games. Ideally, you’ll make sure that the view doesn’t diminish their pleasure. In addition, of course, wash your hands after going to the toilet, which becomes particularly important in sexual intercourse. Unfortunately, the vagina is very sensitive to certain bacteria.
If you want to be sure that you do not have bad breath, have especially bridges, dentures and crowns examined. Many people do not know that this is often the reason for bad breath.

4.) Drug use
During escort dates, illegal drugs of any kind and excessive alcohol consumption should be avoided on both sides. For the lady you are in the worst case a complete stranger, whose reactions she can hardly estimate. Please don’t put them in a position to feel uncomfortable around you because you are on drugs.

5) Stealthing / Questions after AO
Any question about AO in advance is blocked by me and my colleagues anyway. If you ask for it in the date, it can happen that the lady breaks off the date because she no longer feels safe. Attempting to stealth (secretly pulling off the condom) leads me – and I’m sure many other ladies as well – to breaking off the date with retention of the fee. If unprotected intercourse has already taken place, this will be reported to the police and considered a sexual assault under §177 of the German Penal Code.

Thanks for the post Mia Elysia